Food for Thought on Love

***For those ISO LOVE, here is some food for thought:

By default.... (1) People make conscious decisions based on subconscious feelings, then justify their decisions with reasons that sound good........

(2)People subconsciously grow dependent upon those who satisfy their emotional needs.....

(3) People are most attracted to those who exhibit some degree of aloofness and emotional independence... and my favorite....

(4) People want what they can't have.

The way to true love is not to sit back and wait for the person of your dreams to magically appear. Rather, it involves choosing the one YOU want above all others, and then winning their heart. If you haven't figured out why your relationships have failed in the past, then you are at the mercy of fate. Not the way to approach the game of love!

There is always a reason why a relationship succeeds or fails. A clear and accurate understanding of what went wrong is vital to your future success.

Remember relationships need the Big 4 and here they are…

Friendship

Respect

Passion

& Communication

If one of these four elements is missing, your relationship is doomed to fail.... Yes, you might ask how cum Trust in not in the top 4. Well, Trust to me earns the "0" place. It would be silly to be with someone that we wouldn't be able to trust. Without trust, none of the other 4 elements would stand a chance.